The most common narrative out there will tell you that it means this person, place or opportunity isn’t aligned for you - that they aren’t safe.

People often ask me what I think about casual hookups while opening the space to receive a new partner.

Which is more important, chemistry or compatibility? This is a question I am often asked and my answer is that both are necessary with compatibility taking a slight lead.

Truth be told, you’re unchecked attachment tendencies are leaking all over your life.

Be aware of trying to make someone else hear you, when the person who most needs to hear what you have to say is, you.

The greatest healing I’ve experienced in my relationship has been from the mutual creation and feeling of safetiness during a tough conversation.

How many times have you asked yourself, are you the one, while looking into the eyes of a man?

What if we create a new narrative about boys that includes kindness, compassion, softness, and the capacity to love?

And how did it go for you, to wait and hope and stand certain that this one thing was the answer to your happiness?

It’s the capacity to hold yourself in radical personal responsibility without making yourself wrong and to know what is and isn’t on your side of the street.

We often don’t notice how our incessant complaining is eating away at our man’s confidence.

How do you shift from feeling like a victim of your circumstances to radically changing your life? The answer is in this video below.

How do you shift from feeling like a victim of your circumstances to radically changing your life? The answer is in this video below.

In her words, she finds this to be significantly less work than holding onto anger and resentment.

We’re actually more afraid of receiving them or even allowing ourselves to entertain the possibility of than we think.

Whether you’re calling in a man, money, or both are you ready to truly receive them and give them the space to feel purposeful?

If there’s one thing I know for sure, and have mounds of evidence to prove, it’s that being in a more relaxed position, trying less and letting ourselves be, is where our true power lies.

From my point of view, I was the ultimate girlfriend. This must be how great relationships are built, I thought. 

I would either lean back, observe and let him correct himself, or I’d put on my empowered Queen shoes and have a courageous conversation to tell him how it made me feel.

It’s no longer about what you say or what you know, it’s about who you’re being.