I don’t know about you, but I’m not willing to live a life filled with fear, worry and doubt.

Here's what I didn’t do when Jack said he wasn’t sure if he’d ever get married…

A man’s (heart-based) attraction to you is based on how he feels in your presence.

When you can begin to accept that two opposing states can exist in one entity, the veil of confusion starts to lift.

I’m also becoming acutely aware of the ways in which I do or don’t express my gratitude - or even feel it for that matter.

And every once in a while, when their wise self takes a backseat to their human self, I’m there to help remind them.

You may want to gloss over this, but for the wise ones reading this, you’ll see that the potency of this message is in its simplicity.

When I’m working with a woman who’s in this struggle, I always encourage her to trust what she felt.

In my experience, the BEST, most expansive decisions I’ve ever made in my life we’re made from my heart.

Because…divine timing is a real thing.

Where the feminine gets to say the “what”, and the masculine gets to take care of the “how.”

Remember, if you speak your feelings, you’re not giving away your power.

What happens from there however is a dance between your readiness, and his.

I’m curious, what do you believe your man really wants from you?

If you hold onto a vision too tight, it starts to lose life. Trust and spaciousness, are fundamental to being securely attached to your vision.

To witness what it means to trust your inner most knowing, despite the relevant fears.

So if you know yourself to be in a relationship with someone who is good, and albeit, humanly flawed, I invite you to try seeing things from the most loving perspective that you can – and see what that does for your connection.

AND still, I invite you to see how creating the feeling of spaciousness in your relationship will start to open you up to new possibilities, new growth, and newfound depths of appreciation.

I find that keeping space between myself and my vision leaves space for the Universe to come and play, to add pieces, remove some and surprise and delight me along the way.