You’ve probably asked a similar question before. Or something that sounds like,

“Am I doing that avoidant thing again where I meet a good man but I’m still not interested?”

The truth is that if he feels that’s what he’s doing to you, he may simply decide you deserve something - and someone else all together.

When we work together I’ll help you clearly see where you’re being “picky” vs being in your standards.

While you know this isn’t a pattern you want to carry forward, you find yourself slipping into not only taking care of your kids, but your man, too.

I’ve always been in love with my man’s potential from our very first date when he told me he imagined a life for himself outside of the usual box.

When you’ve asked your man to make a change and you see no change in sight.

I take a look at my sexual energy - When was the last time I danced, rolled my hips, felt sexy with myself? How connected or disconnected am I feeling with my body?

I don’t know about you, but I’m not willing to live a life filled with fear, worry and doubt.

Like the tiny curl in Jack’s gorgeous mane that reminds me of coming down from my apartment to see him waiting at my front door on our first date.

She’s been seeing a wonderful man for a couple of months now and right off the bat, he let her know he was undecided about having children.

All that efforting and focusing on fixing the problem is literally deepening the problem and expanding the gap between you and him.

More than anything, I’m suggesting you bring playFULLness to your love life and dating experiences.

Whether you wait two weeks or two months, these are questions that will help guide your decision on when you’re ready to sleep with someone.

I know you want to throw all caution to the wind and jump two feet in.

There’s a difference between being needy and needing your man.

Here's what I didn’t do when Jack said he wasn’t sure if he’d ever get married…

Sending short, sweet, thoughtful messages that gives just a little at a time. Let him savour you and crave for more.

You question his timeline and check-in often to see if he’s going to deliver what he’s promised (and what you have likely coerced him into in the first place).

A man’s (heart-based) attraction to you is based on how he feels in your presence.

I want you to hear me loud and clear when I say, if the only thing you “learn” to do in this life is feel safe in your body, it will take care of the rest.