Recently a client asked if she should cancel the dates she had coming up because she wasn’t in the “right” energetic state after a couple of disappointing dating experiences.

When you’ve asked your man to make a change and you see no change in sight.

More than anything, I’m suggesting you bring playFULLness to your love life and dating experiences.

Repeat after me, “no matter how well the date is going I will end the date a couple of hours in.” The feminine paces. Period. End of story.

The Mere Exposure Effect study shows that our attraction to people grows over time as we get to know them in low pressure situations.

I know how tempting it can be to lose yourself on the first couple of dates, especially when you feel equally into each other and the chemistry is brimming.

I am a “no rules” love coach. I’m not going to tell you to wait 3 days, 3 weeks or 3 months for any specific milestones in your new relationship. What I will insist on, however, is the slow burn. But what does that mean exactly?