A man’s (heart-based) attraction to you is based on how he feels in your presence.

This is all about your wants. Dreams. The ‘mmmm I get to have it all’ type of energy.

How can you detach from an outcome, like let’s say meeting a man you’re really interested in and hoping it turns into something deeper when you want it so much?

I know my partner loves and needs space when it comes to creating something I desire.

Let’s start by describing how attachment vs detachment feels in your body.

Attachment styles are transient and dependent on which relationship you’re in and what that other person magnifies in you.

There are so many subtleties in dating and relationships that can impact the way you’re showing up, the way you’re being perceived, and the experiences you’re attracting. And the best way to become attuned to these subtleties is to notice the tendencies in what you say and how you act, and how you feel in your body.